Your past affect your present?

Somehow, when people get stuck, their excuse maybe "my past experience told me i will fail again".

You can choose to CHANGE, to enjoy the present and look forward to the future. History only repeats itself when no one listen and learn. So, make sure you listen and learn about it.

Remember: doing the same thing again and expecting a different outcome -- it's Crazy!

I suggest you read this book "The Present". 


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You will fail or You will success

Got some insights from a book about 10 reasons why you fail to achieve your GOAL.

1. You give up too quickly
well, be patient! your goal just in-front of you. Enjoy your present and look forward to your future.

2. You're not prepared to work hard
Is it what you want? if you 101% sure, be prepared to work hard to get what you want!

3. You haven't got a clear picture of what you want
Spend some time at the beginning to think clearly what you want. Use mind map to help u draw the picture.

4. You set an unrealistic time goal
Set a proper GOAL, SMART is the golden rule! (Specific; Measurable; Achievable; Realistic; Time)

5. You have no clear strategy
You could easily figure out the strategy once you carry out the SWOT analysis! (Strength; Weakness; Opportunities; Threats).

6. You lack commitment to do your very best
You need to take responsibility of your life.

7. You let mistakes set you back
Learn from mistake & let go.

8. You focus on the end result, rather than enjoying the effort it take to get there.
Enjoy every little moment. Life is a combination of many tiny little moments, significant or insignificant.

9. You have no support system
Share with someone you trust and willing to listen to you

10. You expect to fail
Silly? if you fear to do something, your first believe is .... you will fail

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Expecting Something To Happen

How often would you expect somebody to do something for you? Do you always expect your team-mates to do the same as what you did? When you feel lonely, would you expect your partner to give you a hug?

Stop your expectation! How could anyone know your expectation if you don't tell them?! Bear in mind that everyone has his/her own perception towards different things, and please don't expect others to think in exactly your way.


If you are expecting what you want right now, why not just ask instead of keeping the expectation in mind and waiting for someone to respond to your expectation? Think about it.

• You've the right to ask for what you want BUT be prepared for a "no".
• A "yes" response will only happen under a sincere and well manner
• Show your appreciation when people say "yes".
• Remember no one can read your mind, so don't assume. 

When I wrote this post, I was thinking if I have made the same mistake or how it could be applied to me? When I started this coaching blog, I expected my readers would give me comments. Then I realized I should "ask" rather than "expect". So here it is. I have added "please give me some comments to stimulate my thinking". And it's your turn now. With the sincere and well ask, I am waiting for your response!