How often would you expect somebody to do something for you? Do you always expect your team-mates to do the same as what you did? When you feel lonely, would you expect your partner to give you a hug?
Stop your expectation! How could anyone know your expectation if you don't tell them?! Bear in mind that everyone has his/her own perception towards different things, and please don't expect others to think in exactly your way.
If you are expecting what you want right now, why not just ask instead of keeping the expectation in mind and waiting for someone to respond to your expectation? Think about it.
- You've the right to ask for what you want BUT be prepared for a "no".
- A "yes" response will only happen under a sincere and well manner
- Show your appreciation when people say "yes".
- Remember no one can read your mind, so don't assume.
When I wrote this post, I was thinking if I have made the same mistake or how it could be applied to me? When I started this coaching blog, I expected my readers would give me comments. Then I realized I should "ask" rather than "expect". So here it is. I have added "please give me some comments to stimulate my thinking". And it's your turn now. With the sincere and well ask, I am waiting for your response!
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